Ramit Sethi had a recent article in The New York Times which essentially dissed thrift and exalted earning. It's a classic argument. Unfortunately, it's a false dichotomy.
It is possible to both save and earn more. I would argue that done in conjunction, earning more and cutting back and therefore saving more are the double whammy of personal finance. Kind of a no-brainer, eh?
I don't mean to make you panic here, but I also have a really radical "other" option. Ready? It's possible to be *gasp* satisfied with what you currently earn. Shut your mouth! This is America, heifer! More is better! Go big or go home!
Alright then. I'll go home. Well, after I've griped some more.
Sethi's article touches on something pretty significant that he probably didn't intend. Take a gander at this portion of the article which notes a series of cut backs in spending:
Not bad. $400 saved. But at what cost? Each morning, Jack has to decide if can buy that latte. He has to consciously cancel his cable. He has to decide if he can afford that dinner out. On and on -- and he has to do this every month.OH. MY. GOD. THE COST! The cost! Migrant farm workers don't have to suffer like this; why should Jack? He has to be cognizant of his decisions EVERY. SINGLE. MONTH? He can't just walk around in a stupor, spending money on stupid shit he doesn't need? You mean, it's just too much of a hassle to be conscious? To ask if something has genuine value before Jack plunks a dollar down? To pay attention to his actions? I mean, imagine the horror if Jack were to grow a soul and started asking really complicated questions, such as, "Do I want to spend money on this latte when I'm not sure if the farmers were paid a fair wage?" What about, "Is this disposable cup really necessary? I mean, I did order this coffee to drink inside the shop."
Well, crap on a spatula! That's just too much to handle. Go ahead and shut that brain off, Jack! Being fully awake and present is just far too much to ask of a human being. Well, maybe a human being with a rather outsized and damaging sense of entitlement, to be more accurate.
Sethi continues with
Cutting back may be easier for the first month. But it's likely unsustainable. After all, there's a limit to how much you can save. But there's no limit to how much you can earn.Of course. Behaving in the world as if you are actually an alive, breathing, thinking human being is completely unsustainable. Behavior change? Totally unrealistic. Jump in that Hummer, wolf down that CAFO meat, buy that tech gagdet mined on the blood and broken bodies of women, and carry on! No need to change a thing! That's just unsustainable.
Seriously, dude? Seriously? Seriously.
And secondly? Of course there is a limit to what you can earn. There are only so many hours in a day, so many people willing to buy what you're selling, so much energy you have to expend, and (hopefully) so many boundaries you're willing cross. Regardless of what faux spirituality folks like to spew, the material world has limits. Sometimes, it's a good idea to respect them. When we don't, horrible crap happens (see: climate change).
Further, can we please all stop talking about earning more as if it's some effortless joy ride that takes absolutely no time? Sethi's right. You'll have no problem finding someone who will pay top dollar for whatever you're selling, because we outsource virtually every aspect of our lives. But don't forget that you have to do the preliminary (sometimes constant) unpaid work of hustling for clients, maintaining those relationships and actually doing the work. Your reward? Less time to do with as you please and a portion of your earnings will be given to Uncle Sam to be spent in ways that will infuriate you.
The beauty of investing money you've saved from downshifting? It's not taxed and more often than not, you don't have to hand over massive chunks of your life (AKA time) to get it. It's usually a two-second decision that goes a little something like this: OMG! Look at that totally adorable Princess Kneesa ewok doll! My mom threw mine away when I was a kid. Damn her! (Seriously, she did. And I totally want that doll.) Wait, what? Oh fortheloveofallthat'sholy, you don't need a silly stuffed animal. Go read a library book, you dork.
Bam! Done. No hustling, taxing or time needed.
I argue that more than likely, the process of earning money is already taking up the vast majority of your life. Does it really deserve more? Research shows that the more we earn, the more we spend. Will you fall into that trap as well if you focus all your efforts on earning more? What does it say about us if being cognizant of our spending behavior is simply too taxing?
I'm not suggesting that earning extra money is a bad thing. Or that downshifting is always easy. It's just that earning more money is not some effortless panacea that will cure all that ails. Nor is cutting back on spending the only way to gain financial independence. There is no dichotomy. You can do both and blend the best of both worlds.
Personally, I find that I have more than I need and downshifting/living frugally has given me a greater awareness of my actions, helped me to live in better alignment with my values and has made the process of earning more as I age and move up in my career all that more valuable, because I'm not wasting money on silly crap. (Well, not as much, anyway.) Turns out, behaving like the conscious living instead of the living dead is more than just sustainable; it's the key to being a decent human.

22 comments:
You've done it again! Great.
For me, no one can put a price on my valuable (not in the monetary sense) time. I'd rather not spend an extra 5 hours doing something, I'd rather cut something out. I don't consider it a sacrifice making my own coffee at home (agreed about those wasteful cups) or canceling cable (one of the best decisions I've made this year). The examples of what Jack cuts back on are mostly luxuries, but they are entitlements in most people's eyes. No wonder we’re a society living beyond its means.
You simply cannot earn back lost time. I'd like to see a financial analyst write about that.
I read that same post today. I'm amazed that you wrote such a good response so quickly! I never like the earn more vs. save more debates. You can do both. And while I do like some of Ramit's brash style, I think that he definitely does not value time nor assess the time it really takes to start and maintain a "side" biz. In his article, he talks about a man who takes on a side gig so his wife stays home. I know some men like that but they miss out a lot in terms of their children's lives (and they know it) and it's a sad trade-off.
Amen.
OMG I'm laughing so hard that it hurts.
Seriously though, I read the article and it really just made me sad. Do people really find it so horrible to pay attention to what they're spending? And the whole concept that spending money will make you happy... oh such a lie.
For me it all boils down to how you'd rather spend your time. Personally, I'd much rather get to enjoy things like growing vegetables, and cooking, and walking/biking (instead of driving).
I mean, sure - if you really like being cooped up in an office somewhere selling your time to other people, go for it. Personally, that's my definition of hell on earth.
have I told you lately how much I really do love you?
I sit and read how well you dare voice all the stuff fluttering around my brain and think WHY don't I have her courage?
Somewhere on this trip to the Emerald City, I find myself wishing for more courage... Brain and Heart, covered, but wow, you just hammer it home!
You have an uncanny ability to bring absolute hilarity to some of the saddest things. I laughed so hard started with "OH. MY. GOD. THE COST!" and didn't stop until the end.
But in all seriousness, do people really think this way? We're not even talking about decisions like how much to give to which charities, or retirement planning. We're talking about LOOKING AT YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATION AND DECIDING IF YOU CAN AFFORD CABLE OR DINNER OUT. Which is just basic financial literacy. It makes me shudder to think of adults who never give any thought to their financial decisions. (And who are privileged enough that they never have to).
Sad.
I would have said the same things but not nearly as well and nobody would have been laughing. You have a great gift that gets your point across while keeping people entertained and reading.
Of course saving money works! That's why people have been doing it for centuries. Not saving does not work. Just look at our world now. Not saving is a post WWII phenom and we can all see how well that has worked!
And seriously, please tell all the people who can't even find a job how easy it is to earn more money! I am sure they will be pleased to hear those words of wisdom.
He lost me when he tried to make feel sorry for good ole Jack having to make such a hard decision - whether he could afford a latte or not. Um, if Jack is stressing over a latte, then he has deeper issues. LOL
I'm trying to wean myself away from the "I just need to earn more" philosophy so I appreciate your (hilarious) voice of reason.
Very well said. I hope this gets the widespread attention it deserves. The more-more-more mentality is really driving me nuts. I hope Jack loses his job and has to live in a box under an overpass.
jesinalbuquerque
Freakin' HILARIOUS....and brilliant!
thank-you my pissed off friend:)
Awww! Thank you folks! I'm glad someone found my lunatic raging entertaining. (Kim, it helps if you're just a fundamentally rude person, which is probably not something anyone should wish for.)
Cate--dude, I didn't even think of it in those terms. YES. This is basic. financial. literacy. Yet we're constantly being told that it's just too much to bear. Then we're scolded for being in so much debt. Sigh.
And sandy--YES. I didn't think of that either! Tell all those folks who have been unemployed for ages how easy it is to make money. gah! GAH!
Jes? ahahahahah so wrong!! ahahahah
Thank you all for your kind words and for tolerating my lunatic ramblings.
AMEN to all of this. And you CRACK me up. HAHAAAAA
-Andrea
Totally agree with everything you said. Demandra for president! Man, especially the point about how it's not like side businesses are all giggles and bunnies, but are undertakings that take a lot of time, and many Americans are already miserable because they have too *little* free time to be with their families and friends.
Also, I know this makes me That Person, but stuff like this is why I stopped reading the Times a few years ago. Giving up lattes a lifestyle adjustment? Come on.
"He can't just walk around in a stupor, spending money on stupid shit he doesn't need? You mean, it's just too much of a hassle to be conscious? To ask if something has genuine value before Jack plunks a dollar down? "
THANK YOU!!!!
We Americans are so scared of cutting back, being frugal, going without. It's like our birthrights as Americans is the ability to buy anything we want when we want, even if we have to put it on the credit card.
Our recent downsizing, which has required a consistent inquiry "do we need this?" has been strangely freeing, opening up other options, creativity or simply the realization that no, we don't need a latte every day - but once a month a latte might be a very special treat.
You are a gem Aldra, thanks for stepping out with your opinions.
BRAVO. Seriously. I don't have time to write a long comment because I'm prepping for a (low-cost, simple, all-done-by-hand-to-save-money) birthday party, but I'm so glad you wrote this. I haven't much read the news this week, but I'll certainly be clicking on that article and may comment on it as well. I agree wholeheartedly with everything you said.
I found you through Rachel at 6512 and Growing :).
Jaimie
I'm back for another pass at this because my fire has softened a little and I'm feeling less judgmental, more compassionate.
I think we Americans feel so entitled to our material pleasures because we've been told since we were little that being a grown up is about working. And so we grow up and start working and maybe we get a great, fulfilling job, but more likely it's an okay job but we work too much and there's not much time for personal development/hobbies etc...but at least we have $ to show for it and we're going to get that latte because we work so hard and we deserve it.
This is a really hard thing to shake. Especially if your identity is tied up in your career and you've never explored what might be more fulfilling than that latte.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Articles like that get me so irritated and at the same time depressed but you expressed common sense better than anything else I've ever read or been able to articulate myself. It gives me hope. You are truly a gift.
Muchas gracias, my dears! Thank you Jaimie & Jennifer (& everyone else) for chiming in!
Rachel, there is no room for compassion here! :P But seriously, I agree with you. I simply find that anger is a useful tool (for me, anyway) in shedding constricting skin.
I truly believe that we are under a constant onslaught of messages to consume and earn more so that we can consume even more, all at the expense of our health and happiness. Did you ever see the documentary "Affluenza?" At one point, they were highlighting a conference on selling to children and the speaker says, "Anti-social behavior is a good thing. We want to see anti-social behavior." Say what? But social cohesion is the key to a healthy society! You are trying to damage the very fabric of our culture, sir.
Enter rage.
So, I get it. I get that we are beat the fuck down from birth to work and spend our asses off and to derive our identity from it. And we all want to belong, and do the right thing and be good adults and blah blah blah. The only way I've been able to break free from that programming to get pissed. Anger works for me. (Plus, you should really meet my father. It'll all make sense then.)
I'm not mad at the fictional Jack in this tale. I'm mad at the author, who is further reinforcing the idea that our lives should revolve around the pursuit of Getting More. I'm mad that he is so dismissive of thrift and is telling readers that it can't be done.
I suppose if I were a more enlightened being, I would feel compassion for him and understand that he is simply being a very good citizen of corporate America. But at the end of the day, his message is damaging, which makes me just want to smack him.
Wowza. You had me at crap on a spatula.
This is so well put - and it's also true you can just downshift for a while, and when you fall off the wagon, you suck back the latte you didn't need, and get back on tomorrow. I avoid a lot of spending by telling myself that I'll come back and get whatever it is tomorrow. By tomorrow, I've regained my sanity.
I am so thankful that the work I do is so very personally fulfilling, and that I don't have to do it all that often. It gives me more time to read good blogs, among other things.
YOu're right, Aldra, Ramit Sethi is saying some pretty daft things. Of course there is a limit to what most people can earn and most people in work in the West can probably save a bit more than they do.
As to Jack, until he stops working such long hours and starts eating properly he won't have the time or the energy to think much and that's great news for everyone who wants to sell him stuff by just getting him to respond to the smell of the coffee or all the other marketing ploys. Jack is a capitalist's dream!
Yes, his message his very damaging. People read that and believe that thrift is not going to do any good. I'm watching it happen to a friend of mine with a young family. I met her at work and we become friends even though I am older and in a different life phase. I've been along side her for several years while she and her husband do some really smart things and then spend the money they've saved by buying more crap while borrowing from their parents to make it to the next paycheck.
She did exactly as the article suggests and got another part time job to go with her full time job. They still cannot get ahead because of the mindset of "thrift is a waste of time, I'm entitled to buy things to make me happy". She's not as irresponsible as I'm making her sound, but it breaks my heart to see them not really getting it.
So, yes, he makes me mad because this mindset is damaging. He is saying to not bother being thrifty just earn more money so you can buy anything you want. Unfortunately, this translates for some people into buying more things instead of paying off the debt they already have and saving for the future. The priorities are all wrong. I'll stop now because I could rant forever on this. It is so refreshing to know I am not alone in my feelings on this.
I seriously love this. So awesome.
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